Found the issue, just wanted to post it here in the rare case someone sees this. I bought the raspbery pi from Canakit, and used the installer that came with the kit. Apt-Get update came back with this error
E: Repository 'http://security.debian.org/debian-security buster/updates InRelease' changed its 'Suite' value from 'stable' to 'oldstable'
So I researched the error and got this solution sudo apt-get --allow-releaseinfo-change update which fixed the error in apt-get, but then apt-get upgrade broke pip. This was the cause of the error. So I downloaded the image from raspberry pi, and flashed it with etcher and it worked flawlessly.
Good to go now, thanks for looking at this with me.